{"id":13546,"date":"2023-03-21T02:01:30","date_gmt":"2023-03-21T01:01:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.graviton.at\/letterswaplibrary\/the-eye-detector-use-dialtion-to-your-advantage\/"},"modified":"2023-03-21T02:01:30","modified_gmt":"2023-03-21T01:01:30","slug":"the-eye-detector-use-dialtion-to-your-advantage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.graviton.at\/letterswaplibrary\/the-eye-detector-use-dialtion-to-your-advantage\/","title":{"rendered":"The Eye Detector: Use Dialtion To Your Advantage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>        THE EYE DETECTOR<\/p>\n<p>This is not a trick or a gimmick.  It is<br \/>\na valuable tool that can be of great<br \/>\nassistance in your everyday life.  You<br \/>\ncan use it for entertainment purposes<br \/>\nhowever.<\/p>\n<p>Researchers have discovered that if you<br \/>\nshow people photographs of normal<br \/>\neveryday items, the pupils of their eyes<br \/>\nremain pretty much the same.  When shown<br \/>\nsexually oriented photos of the opposite<br \/>\nsex, their pupils would dilate<br \/>\ndramatically.  Further research showed<br \/>\nthat whenever a volunteer was shown<br \/>\nsomething that they wanted very much,<br \/>\nthe pupils would again dilate.<br \/>\nCon-versely, when people are telling a<br \/>\nblatant lie, the same thing happens.<\/p>\n<p>You have to be watching very closely to<br \/>\nsee this happen, but a suddenly dilated<br \/>\npupil can tell you a lot.<\/p>\n<p>How can you use this information? I hope<br \/>\nexplanation is not necessary as far as<br \/>\ndetecting lies go.  You can of course<br \/>\nuse this for negotiations, making<br \/>\npurchases, forming partnerships etc.<br \/>\nWhile it can make you more careful and<br \/>\nis valuable, nevertheless, this is not<br \/>\nfoolproof.  You should not accuse anyone<br \/>\nof lying unless you are positive.  This<br \/>\nis just a tool.  It is not 100%.  Use it<br \/>\nas an indicator only.<\/p>\n<p>It can also be handy in relationships.<br \/>\nThe next time you are flirting with<br \/>\nsomeone, you might make mildly<br \/>\nsuggestive comments and study the eyes,<br \/>\nwatching for a sudden flare of the<br \/>\npupils.  Again, be careful and tactful.<br \/>\nYou don&#8217;t want to be sued for<br \/>\nharassment.<\/p>\n<p>For entertainment purposes, you might<br \/>\nuse something like the following.  Pick<br \/>\na volunteer and seat them in front of<br \/>\nyou.  Take four blank pieces of paper or<br \/>\ncards and draw a big dollar sign on one<br \/>\nof them and leave the other three blank,<br \/>\nor write something benign on them like<br \/>\n&#8220;pen,&#8221; &#8220;pencil&#8221; and &#8220;paper clip.&#8221; Tell<br \/>\nyour subject that the dollar sign<br \/>\nrepresents one million dollars that you<br \/>\nhave just given them.  Tell them to<br \/>\nvisualize the one thing in their life<br \/>\nthat they want more than anything.<br \/>\nSomething that they would be able to<br \/>\npurchase with that million dollars.<br \/>\nMake sure that they have something real<br \/>\nin mind.  Tell them to visualize the<br \/>\ncolor, to really see it in their mind&#8217;s<br \/>\neye.  Picture it clearly.<\/p>\n<p>Then you instruct them to pretend that<br \/>\nthe dollar sign represents the million<br \/>\nand it will be theirs to buy their<br \/>\ndream, unless.  .  .  you can tell which<br \/>\ncard the dollar sign is written on.<\/p>\n<p>Have someone else shuffle the cards or<br \/>\npaper, mixing them up.  When they are<br \/>\nhanded back to your subject, they should<br \/>\nbe concealed from you.  If you are<br \/>\nsitting at a table, your volunteer may<br \/>\nsimply hold them under the table out of<br \/>\nyour line of sight.  If you are not at a<br \/>\ntable, use a towel or tray to obstruct<br \/>\nyour vision, hiding the cards from your<br \/>\nsight.  You MUST still be able to see<br \/>\nyour subject&#8217;s eyes.  Tell them to look<br \/>\nat the cards one at a time and to then<br \/>\nlook at you before going on to the next<br \/>\none.  You may have to ask them to look<br \/>\nat one or two cards again.  When they<br \/>\nlook up, you are of course studying<br \/>\ntheir pupils.  When they look up and you<br \/>\nnotice that their pupils are dilated,<br \/>\nyou know which card the dollar sign is<br \/>\non.  You then amaze your audience by<br \/>\ntelling them that the dollar sign is on<br \/>\nthe third card they looked at (or<br \/>\nwhichever).<\/p>\n<p>If there is light behind you or the room<br \/>\nis somewhat bright, their pupils might<br \/>\nbecome somewhat smaller.  This is a<br \/>\ntelltale because it tells you that the<br \/>\npupils were larger.  They will dilate<br \/>\nagain as the eyes adjust.<\/p>\n<p>When they are looking at the blank or<br \/>\nbenign cards, there will be little or no<br \/>\nchange in the eyes.  The card with the<br \/>\ndollar sign will produce a much more<br \/>\nnoticeable response.<\/p>\n<p>If you think that your subject is going<br \/>\nto try and trick you, you might appoint<br \/>\na member of your audience to act as a<br \/>\nsort of watchdog to see that your<br \/>\ninstructions are carried out.  Or to<br \/>\nwatch for any cheating on either of your<br \/>\nparts.<\/p>\n<p>Practice this a few times with friends<br \/>\nor family before trying it with an<br \/>\naudience.  People will think that you<br \/>\ncan read minds if this is done<br \/>\ncorrectly.<\/p>\n<p>I am not going to attempt to tell you<br \/>\nall of the possibilities that this<br \/>\nconcept has.  Law enforcement agencies,<br \/>\ncustoms officers, lawyers, personnel<br \/>\nofficers etc.  all have their own uses<br \/>\nfor this principle.  If you just<br \/>\nremember it and use it a few times, you<br \/>\nwill be amazed at the information this<br \/>\nwill give you.  It can also give you<br \/>\nquite a reputation.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine the possibilities.<\/p>\n<p>         END FILE<\/p>\n<div class='watch-action'><div class='watch-position align-right'><div class='action-like'><a class='lbg-style1 like-13546 jlk' href='javascript:void(0)' data-task='like' data-post_id='13546' data-nonce='9941108d62' rel='nofollow'><img class='wti-pixel' src='https:\/\/www.graviton.at\/letterswaplibrary\/wp-content\/plugins\/wti-like-post\/images\/pixel.gif' title='Like' \/><span class='lc-13546 lc'>0<\/span><\/a><\/div><\/div> <div class='status-13546 status align-right'><\/div><\/div><div class='wti-clear'><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>THE EYE DETECTOR This is not a trick or a gimmick. 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